would you change your appearance if your significant other asks you?

[ojsinnerz]

Change my hairstyle? I'm ok with that. Lose weight? I've been doing that for the last 3 months already.

Sure.

[conurebleu]

Congratz on losing weight! I just hope it's primary for YOUR self-being :-)

I should do more exercice myself, I'm not fat, far from that, simply not in shape

[yuki-chan]

hey yuki why don't you post a picture of you ?
( pringlesXD stay away ! )

Post a picture, yay ~

Sorry but no

[reyvard]

why not ! ( but I understand your choice so much ! during your long absence on the forum I was confronted to that too )

[yuki-chan]

why not ! ( but I understand your choice so much ! during your long absence on the forum I was confronted to that too )

Because it's embarrassing

[Obake]

I think some things could be sensible to change, within reason. In regards to the OP, that's just overboard.

Me personally, I'm not willing to compromise at all on my time, appearance, or lifestyle. That's one big reason I'm single, I don't need to be inflicting myself on another that way.

[ojsinnerz]

Congratz on losing weight! I just hope it's primary for YOUR self-being :-)

I should do more exercice myself, I'm not fat, far from that, simply not in shape

Thank you! I started because [spoiler]
A. I felt I could be physically attractive with a decent haircut, new set of clothes and if I lost weight.
B. Just about every family member called me fat. (220 pounds. I was just at 200 pounds a week ago. I'm Korean, and by Korean standards, I was insanely obese. I originally hoped to lose 10 more pounds by the end of November, but didn't work out)
C. My mother would comment approximately 6-10 times PER HOUR about my weight. Not a joke. I honestly think she's developing Alzheimers. She FORGETS that she made these comments.
D. I wanted to lose weight for awhile. Since I just got out of high school, I had a bit of time on my hands, so I joined a gym. [/spoiler]

I started working out seriously from the first of September. I changed my diet entirely, and worked out consistently for 2 months. I got good results in the two months, that's for sure! Buuuuuut I've been slacking off since Mid November. I should get back into it once Winter break begins.

[Ivy]

As one of those many people that have a lot of difficulties losing weigh, kudos to you man that's admirable! Keep truckin', yo :>

[Raguna]

Thank you! I started because
A. I felt I could be physically attractive with a decent haircut, new set of clothes and if I lost weight.
B. Just about every family member called me fat. (220 pounds. I was just at 200 pounds a week ago. I'm Korean, and by Korean standards, I was insanely obese. I originally hoped to lose 10 more pounds by the end of November, but didn't work out)
C. My mother would comment approximately 6-10 times PER HOUR about my weight. Not a joke. I honestly think she's developing Alzheimers. She FORGETS that she made these comments.
D. I wanted to lose weight for awhile. Since I just got out of high school, I had a bit of time on my hands, so I joined a gym.

I started working out seriously from the first of September. I changed my diet entirely, and worked out consistently for 2 months. I got good results in the two months, that's for sure! Buuuuuut I've been slacking off since Mid November. I should get back into it once Winter break begins.

Keep it up man. I am gonna be rooting for ya. Never give up. Im not fat either but like bleu just not in shape so Im planning on doing some running during my winter break as well.